The Role of a PARENT to Play a Helping Hand for Their Children in the Field of Their CAREER

"The day I was born I was told that I didn't make the slightest screech or even a cry..
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I just had my eyes wide open glaring and looking at the surrounding's..

the people.
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the environment.

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being rather unknown to it all..
.but still having a sense of joy that "yes.

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I have finally entered into a new world..MY WORLD"..
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I had my eyes stuck onto my beautiful mom who held me into her arm's.
..admiring me.

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.feeling proud.
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and these feelings were going hand in hand along with my dear fathers.

" You must be wondering that why am I sharing my personal experiences with this piece of matter, it's plainly to give a gist of what I am going to speak about altogether. Being born, coming into this world is the first step when you actually place you feet into 'YOUR TRACK' of life.
Being a child we have got a lot of ambition, I would say in simple words that when we were kid's we actually had a fantasy of becoming something in life because when we are kids we are more exposed to the media and hence we have an ever changing ambition at that time.

You can actually observe and see small kid's aspiring to become a model, then a doctor, pilot, and what not, there are many to name, because children actually live in their own world of fantasy, imagination, likes. But now let us project ourselves more forward in life looking forward into our college day's.

This is the phase when the pressure is the maximum because we have already stepped into a whole new world of opportunities, failures, challenges, threats.

We are in the act and in the track of grooming ourselves into becoming responsible, mature, hardworking, determined citizen's of the present and near future and most importantly it's the phase and the time for us to frame our own career in our own preferable and desirable field.
Now the main page that need's to be turned out here is that it's not only us who is in the race of framing our career, but along with us it's our very own parent's who have their own choices for us in the field of our career and they would be happy if we would make an attempt to pursue their choice, but it's not always that way, parent's at times do give their children the chance to expand their career option and let them choose what they want to do, but there are some student's in this world whose parent's literally pressurize them into selecting the career that his/her parent's want just for their satisfaction, what's going on in the opposite person's mind is of least concern.

This is unfair on most parent's part who actually place their sheer dominance on their very own children when actually at this point of time the students should have a free and an open choice, support and encouragement from their parent's which will in turn help them to progress well in their own lives.
When we are born and as we progress through our phase of life our parent's actually dream of us becoming something big in life..

.being the king of all.
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doing well in our life and moreover being happy in what we do, then why such a bias in relation to choosing a particular field? Why is it that some parent's play unfair? Throw a load of pressure onto their kid's mind and expect something more and incredible from them when actually the child is not actually interested in going onto that track and has his/her heart in something else.

It's of an utmost importance that every parent encourages his/her child in whichever career he/she want's to pursue.

In this way there will be lesser conflict's as well as the student will be at ease in choosing the career keeping a variety of preferable choices open, asking guidelines from parents, and at the same time even the parent's can play their part in keeping their choices open and asking the feedback from their child as to how would they like to pursue the "so-called chosen" career option by their parent's.

To be more precise it would be more effective if parents lend out their helping hand to their child in the positive way making clear all their concept's and idea's in relation to the career so that the child is more comfortable in facing the competitive world on a whole and also is more determined in what they want and how they can achieve what they have actually aimed for. Hence the support of parent's is very pivotal for every child when in actually comes to choosing his/her career. When there is a good support, so is when an individual progresses in life.